I find the reticience to letting the wife find out bizarre. Why don't these young women recognize the wife's right to know that their husbands are sexual predators?No kidding.
Why don't we stop judging her? She was assaulted at the age of 19, and had the incredible courage to come forward publicly now. It's really not her job to define social norms for dealing with harassment and assault cases generally. And pardon my language, but WTF is [b]"these young women"[/b] and WTF is "the wife's right to know"??
Give your heads a shake please.
Give yours a shake. I am talking about the rape culture that is leading young women to think like this. The man's wife was upstairs while he was molesting her but she's worried about the wife finding out. Why? If she were married would she not want to know if her husband was molesting women? Where is the urge to protect the men coming from? Are women brainwashed into thinking we have to not want to hurt anyone because that isn't nice, it's unfeminine, we are supposed to be merciful?
If you are judging her for it that is your problem.